Helps you focus

While spending time & traveling with Billy, He would ask about my family.  “How is your dad/mom” he always asked.  The first few times it had been weeks since I spoke with my parents. My general response was, “they are ok .” I would have to guess because I didn’t know for sure.  “Never forget to call.”  He went on to explain how it is easy to get busy, especially when you are young.  But, “If you don’t stay close to them now you will regret it later on.”   As a mentor Billy makes sure I focus; not on work but on family.

Billy Hornsby Mentor

Helps you make your mark

The best mentors don’t tell you all the right answers instead they put you in the right environment.  You have to make your “mark” before you make your “mark.”  Using the example of Lee Iacocca, who made his “mark” with Ford Motor Company launching the Mustang, who then went on to make his “mark” as one of business history’s greatest comebacks as president at Chrysler Corporation. His success, coupled with appearances in television commercials and his best-selling book, made him one of the nation’s most known and admired businessmen.

Billy explained how Iacocca could have never been put in the position of president at Chrysler Corporation if he didn’t first launch the Mustang at Ford.  Mentors put you in position to make your mark.  I saved the picture from when Billy was explaining this to me. (Click above to see full.)

Adds value to others…

@kellencoldiron Just spent the best hour of my day with @billyhornsby. Said that time spent living for yourself is wasted. A great man.

@mattfry Landed in Birmingham. Looking forward to spending time with the “bishop” @billyhornsby So thankful for the impact he’s had on my life.

@markpettus “I don’t want anything from you, I want to add to you.” @billyhornsby

@joelhunter1 Just talked to friend and mentor @billyhornsby there is nobody on the planet I respect more! His faith, his family and his ministry!

@sean_clarke: “Believe in people and your life will be full” from @billyhornsby. Incredible leader! So blessed to know him & learn from him!

@Chris_Hodges: If you serve others, the work is always done. If you serve yourself, the work is never done. Words of wisdom from @billyhornsby

Those are a few traits that have made Billy Hornsby a great mentor.

Arc staff and Billy Hornsby

Billy dropped in to see us today. I feel so honored to have him in my life.  He always believes in me and speaks words of encouragement.

Here are a few quotes from Billy Hornsby’s visit:

  • Zeal with out wisdom is a disaster.
  • Always give people the benefit of the doubt
  • You don’t have to be perfect just dedicated.

It was great to have him…

I’m back after not blogging during January I’m back!

Here is a funny video on fasting

21-laws-leadershipI just finished The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John Maxwell. Great book. Here is one thing that stuck out.

Activity vs Accomplishment

If I could pick one law to share with you it would be Law 17 — The Law of Priorities. “Leaders understand that activity is not necessarily accomplishment.” After two years staying busy at ARC, I have realized leadership lessons are easy to read and hard to live out.  It is easy to stay busy, but hard to stay focus and accomplish important task.

Maxwell says, “When we are busy, we naturally believe that we are achieving. But busyness does not equal productivity.”

If you want to learn about the other 20 laws you will have to read or listen to the book yourself.  Buy the audio book here…

Here is the response. this was in less than 24 hours.

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I kinda feel like people didn’t understand the heart in which the video was made. Everything we do is to reach the lost. I guess It would have been good to put that in the video.

If the video isn’t working you may have to view it on facebook

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I’m on a plane coming back from Washington DC where we did our last ARC Church Planters Roundtable.  It has been a great day and a half.  Church planters are so fun at this stage in the game.  It is early and they are dreaming.  There are a lot of unknowns. Will they make it?  I hope so. I hope they are each able to experience success in their ministry.

Here are three quotes I have collected on success. Maybe they will make you think.

  1. “Accuracy doesn’t just happen, you have to make it happen.” -Steve Hornady
  2. “Not Everything that is measurable is meaningful, nor is everything that is meaningful measurable.” -Einstein
  3. “Never be afraid to try something new. Remember that amateurs built the Ark. Professionals built the Titanic.” -Dave Barry

Stressed FamilySecrets from the “The Pastor’s Wife Blog.”

You may or may not agree with all 7 secrets.  I’m not going to comment on any of them, I am just going to give you the facts, straight from the article and let you draw your own conclusions…

The research was based on 32 California based families who opened up their lives to a 3-person crew for 4 days.  In every family, both parents worked outside the home and had two or more children.  So here are the similarities they found.

  1. Low-stress couples don’t divvy up the chores.  They don’t keep score.  “There was more of a ‘we-ness’, the attitude was more we do this for our family, not I do this for you.”
  2. Low-stress families find moments of togetherness. They understand that moments of togetherness do not necessarily happen on vacation, they happen during special moments like braiding their daughter’s hair or cheering together at their son’s t-ball game.
  3. Low-stress parents are role models, not pals.  “There was still affection and humor in homes where the parents the were bosses, there was never a question of who was in charge.
  4. Low-stress moms make dinner from scratch.  The average woman spent about an hour preparing dinner.  Also, children who were involved in the food preparation always ate what they were served. (I am simply relaying the information here.)
  5. Low-stress moms take five minutes of me time.  The secret to being fully present and enjoying family life is taking 5-10 minutes to yourself.  This is a healthy act, not a selfish one.
  6. Low-stress families watch TV together.  “Bonding can be sharing snacks, high-fiving when a basketball team scores, or guessing trivia questions together.”  When families laugh together, it creates a shared memory.
  7. Low-stress families embrace daily rituals.  Routine and continuity (not spontaneity and excitement) set the foundation for making family relationships thrive.

What do you think?