This picture was inspired after my friend brett shot his first deer.
Pastor Layne’s New Puppy
13
Feb
Normally I don’t like dogs but this little puppy was cute. If I was going to have a dog it would be a Siberian Husky.
Helps you focus
While spending time & traveling with Billy, He would ask about my family. “How is your dad/mom” he always asked. The first few times it had been weeks since I spoke with my parents. My general response was, “they are ok .” I would have to guess because I didn’t know for sure. “Never forget to call.” He went on to explain how it is easy to get busy, especially when you are young. But, “If you don’t stay close to them now you will regret it later on.” As a mentor Billy makes sure I focus; not on work but on family.
Helps you make your mark
The best mentors don’t tell you all the right answers instead they put you in the right environment. You have to make your “mark” before you make your “mark.” Using the example of Lee Iacocca, who made his “mark” with Ford Motor Company launching the Mustang, who then went on to make his “mark” as one of business history’s greatest comebacks as president at Chrysler Corporation. His success, coupled with appearances in television commercials and his best-selling book, made him one of the nation’s most known and admired businessmen.
Billy explained how Iacocca could have never been put in the position of president at Chrysler Corporation if he didn’t first launch the Mustang at Ford. Mentors put you in position to make your mark. I saved the picture from when Billy was explaining this to me. (Click above to see full.)
Adds value to others…
@kellencoldiron Just spent the best hour of my day with @billyhornsby. Said that time spent living for yourself is wasted. A great man.
@mattfry Landed in Birmingham. Looking forward to spending time with the “bishop” @billyhornsby So thankful for the impact he’s had on my life.
@markpettus “I don’t want anything from you, I want to add to you.” @billyhornsby
@joelhunter1 Just talked to friend and mentor @billyhornsby there is nobody on the planet I respect more! His faith, his family and his ministry!
@sean_clarke: “Believe in people and your life will be full” from @billyhornsby. Incredible leader! So blessed to know him & learn from him!
@Chris_Hodges: If you serve others, the work is always done. If you serve yourself, the work is never done. Words of wisdom from @billyhornsby
Those are a few traits that have made Billy Hornsby a great mentor.
Surprise Visit
2
Feb
Billy dropped in to see us today. I feel so honored to have him in my life. He always believes in me and speaks words of encouragement.
Here are a few quotes from Billy Hornsby’s visit:
- Zeal with out wisdom is a disaster.
- Always give people the benefit of the doubt
- You don’t have to be perfect just dedicated.
It was great to have him…
Secrets from the “The Pastor’s Wife Blog.”
You may or may not agree with all 7 secrets. I’m not going to comment on any of them, I am just going to give you the facts, straight from the article and let you draw your own conclusions…
The research was based on 32 California based families who opened up their lives to a 3-person crew for 4 days. In every family, both parents worked outside the home and had two or more children. So here are the similarities they found.
- Low-stress couples don’t divvy up the chores. They don’t keep score. “There was more of a ‘we-ness’, the attitude was more we do this for our family, not I do this for you.”
- Low-stress families find moments of togetherness. They understand that moments of togetherness do not necessarily happen on vacation, they happen during special moments like braiding their daughter’s hair or cheering together at their son’s t-ball game.
- Low-stress parents are role models, not pals. “There was still affection and humor in homes where the parents the were bosses, there was never a question of who was in charge.
- Low-stress moms make dinner from scratch. The average woman spent about an hour preparing dinner. Also, children who were involved in the food preparation always ate what they were served. (I am simply relaying the information here.)
- Low-stress moms take five minutes of me time. The secret to being fully present and enjoying family life is taking 5-10 minutes to yourself. This is a healthy act, not a selfish one.
- Low-stress families watch TV together. “Bonding can be sharing snacks, high-fiving when a basketball team scores, or guessing trivia questions together.” When families laugh together, it creates a shared memory.
- Low-stress families embrace daily rituals. Routine and continuity (not spontaneity and excitement) set the foundation for making family relationships thrive.
What do you think?
The slideshow…
11
Nov
After many request we now have the video from the rehearsal dinner ready for you to see!
Just a few days until marriage! I’m so excited. I have been reading my notes from our relationship over the last 8 months (and a little before.) I can’t believe how our relationship has grown. There are a few little sayings from Courtney that have stuck with me. I wanted to share them with you.
“I don’t want all of the ‘love’ to freak you out 
” It helps to understand if you know the context. She sent me the lyrics to a song called “It Looks Like Love” This was when we were nervous about scaring each other off.
“Your Cute!”
“Divorce will never be an option for me. So if you can see replacing a marriage with the Ironman (or some awesome hunting competition) let me know. haha.”
“I didn’t like green tea at first. Then I acquired a taste for it. And now I crave it!” Then I say…. “Guess I’m like green tea.”
That is all of the “little sayings” for now!
Deer Pictures
2
Oct
Bow season is getting close… And just wanted to share some pictures with you.
The perfect one! Notice the deer tracks…. It might be a little red neck but its awesome !
I like this one too.
I’ll probably get one like this…
