John C Maxwell is allowing his blog readers to proof read and add to his book over the next few months. It will be  cool to watch how the book evolves during this process. Here is my first shot at talking about communication {the topic for the new book}. johnmaxwellpost

What do you think?

Trouble finding time to read a few books?
green_booksToday I tried something new. I walked into Borders (local book store near Purdue University) and grabbed a lapdesk and the first 5 books that caught my attention.  Then I sat in one of the large leather chairs.

The Goal: Spend 5 min on each book, for a total of 25 min reading.  I wasn’t sure what the outcome would be. I didn’t have time to read the whole book or even a whole chapter. There was only enough time to get the big picture.

I had a specific strategy for understanding the main point and finding something that would add value in 5 minutes.  Begin with the last sentence. (30 seconds) Next read the chapter titles.  Find a chapter of whose content is most interesting to you. (30 seconds – 1 minute)  Finally, read that chapter as fast as you can.  Be looking for that one little nugget that you can take with you. TIMES UP!  This process was more helpful than I planned.

What did I learn?

1st book
The Green Book
Not sure why I picked two books on “how to be green.”  Sometimes I like to read things that are just different than my usual.  Two things I walked away with were: Will Ferrel drives an electric car.  He explained why and how it makes him feel (p 33). The next thing that I learned will be helpful to my speech at the BUG Conference. There are 1.6 billion homes in the world.

2nd Deep Survival
Different than I expected, but the author was very creative and painted a picture well.  Sometimes too much. So many adjectives and metaphors, I didn’t know what he was actually saying.

365 Ways to live Green
Their goal is to get you to spread the word about going green. (I know this because page 365 said now that you know, go teach your friends.)  I found a section that would help me as I remodel my new house.  It was titled “How to make your house more green.”  Now I’m thinking about buying energy efficient light bulbs and rethinking the interior decor.

After staying on schedule perfectly, there was 5 minutes left. I saved the best for last.
Field Guide to African Wildlife.
I read about each of the animals I saw in my recent trip to Africa. Skipped all the birds. They just don’t interest me. And even learned about the different types of giraffe.

My take away. I had less than an hour and I learned something. It was time well spent.  Obviously, I had to read fast and do a lot of scanning.  But this technique helped me understand the main point and have something to take away.  I have read a whole book without accomplishing those 2 things.

This process goes fast. It was fun.  I wouldn’t recommend it all the time but next time you have a few minutes to kill in a book store, give it a try.

What time saving ideas do you have?

Can Social Networking really give you more time?

Kem Meyer is on a blog tour for here book “Less Clutter Less Noise”

My question for Kem:

What would be your social networking advice for a church planter? Assuming he wants that added clutter and noise to his already busy life?

KEM

Glad you asked! And, you are right. At first glance, it seems completely contradictory to my own mantra: Less Clutter. Less Noise. But, in reality, these technologies effectively help me to COMPRESS time, INCREASE my knowledge base, ORGANIZE my thoughts and calendar, ENHANCE my relationships and hold me ACCOUNTABLE. I link them all together, and set preferences to auto-deliver the stuff I need NOW and organize the stuff I’ll reference LATER in categories.

Here are some of my most excellent social-media stories. Depending on the circumstance and objective…I have both close and extended people groups, regular and intermittent interactions, public and private content.

  • Personal/family: I originally started texting and watching MySpace to stay in relationship with my teenager. Now, my 70 year old mother-in-law is texting and on Facebook in an effort to stay connected to her grandkids (and me). We share photos, stories and fun updates. It compresses time; automatically find out most recent news about everyone you care about without having to come back and check for it. Keeps your inbox clean. Instead of hours on the phone with one or two people. Minutes to keep up with everyone. For example, I have 13 neices and nephews. There is no way I can keep up with them all without some robot technology. Thanks to my digital Facebook assistant, I found out today that Luke’s cell phone was run over by a truck. I have something to talk about when I see him at graduation this weekend.
  • Team/staff: Adds value to others. Develop sense of community in spite of pace, location and different schedules. Bonding. Way to get news out when network or email outage. Helps give a voice to introverts.
  • Church/professional: Info posted once, used over and over. Records what’s happening. Puts a face & personality on the ministry. Forced to organize my thoughts and follow-through. People are watching. I’m accountable. Facilitates connectedness and expressiveness. Provides direct access leaders & ministry experts.
  • Other: I get access to training, tutorials, experts, best practices. Micro-leads to macro information. Instant focus groups. I contribute to community development with peers. It’s a way for me to give back & share insights.

There’s no one size fits all approach for the “how to” of this concept. So don’t ask for it. You can’t make a well-informed decision from an explanation; it has to be experienced. The best advice I can give is to try one at a time and see how it fits. But, there are some ways you can get started.

  • Get help: I won’t tell you the how, that’s part of the fun of it. Connect with one of your friends who’s doing it & have them walk you through first steps.
  • One thing at a time: Start slow & don’t overload yourself all at once. It’s something you have to experience to understand. Try to make a judgment from someone else’s experience and you’ll miss it. It’s unique and personal to each person.
  • Watch others for awhile: pick up on their cues of the do’s & don’ts. Find what’s comfortable for you before you start interacting. But, your first step should be to at least GO to the party. If you aren’t ready to participate in the festivities, it’s totally fine to be a wallflower.
  • When you are ready, go ahead & participate, mingle and connect: But, don’t fake it. Remember, it’s a party not a show. Avoid too much information: it may be personal…but it’s not private.

Thanks Kem

Interested in her book? more info

Oh yeah… She sent me a copy for YOU. The first person to comment will get a free copy of her book!  I’ll need your address too.

dino_rizzo_guy_walkers_blogpicDino Rizzo author of Servolution and pastor of Healing Place Church in Louisiana is on TOUR!  Well a blog tour at least.   Here is the question I asked Dino about his church and serving in the community.

Dino have you ever embarrassed yourself while serving in the community?

Thanks, Guy, for participating in the tour.  And thanks for asking such an important question.  Really.  I think there’s a great point to be made here.  Have I ever been embarrassed in an outreach? Yes indeed.  There have been more times than I want to remember.  Like the time we got a shipment in of 40,000 plantains (a member of the banana family that is really more like a potato and certainly isn’t edible raw).  I thought they were bananas.  They looked like bananas, and everyone we gave them to believed us when we told them they were bananas.  But what a surprise when people started peeling them back and trying to eat them.

There were the thousands of coffee cakes we gave away only to learn they had expiration dates several weeks past.  There was the time we accepted a truckload of yogurt to distribute but didn’t think about how we were going to keep all the yogurt cold.  We didn’t have any refrigeration to handle a truckload of yogurt.

There are times when I’ve been embarrassed because we didn’t think of something we should have.  But there are also times I’ve been embarrassed just because the outreach itself was embarrassing.  Like the time I tell about in the book where we received a truckload of goods to give away, which included a huge box of leopard-print plus-sized lingerie.  There were certainly our fair share of embarrassing moments as our team gave the lingerie away.

And there’s just some moments that are a little awkward.  Like a few weeks ago, I went with our team on a late-nite bar outreach.  We just set up outside the bars around closing time and offer people water and juice and Chick-Fil-A sandwiches.  I gave a sandwich to a dude who was shocked to see me there – he said he goes to our church and really couldn’t believe I was down there checking on him.

The important point in all this is that in serving, when you’re extending yourself to try to do all you can to serve your community, you’re going to make mistakes sometimes.  And sometimes it is going to require being willing to put yourself in an awkward spot in order to be where you need to be to serve.

Thanks Dino for letting me participate in the tour.

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If you have a funny story about a time you were serving the community share it by clicking on Comment.

Textual harassment is something affecting our youth today. guy_walkers_blog_girl_textingOur culture is changing.  People become bolder when they don’t have to communicate face to face.  No longer do you have to go to someone’s house to bother them, you can do it from the convenience of your cell phone.

Have you seen text messages go from sweet to annoying or possibly overwhelming?

Do you know who is texting your kids? or if your kids are feeling overwhelmed?

Textual harassment is something parents and youth pastors need to be aware of and educated on.   If you want to learn more check out this website. It has some great resources like “Callout Cards” and “Discussion Boards”  all relevant to TEXTUAL HARASSMENT.

Have you ever been harassed through social media?

Tuesday Book Review 3/4

guy_walkers_blog_second_command_bookIf You want something done right, get someone else to do it.” -Quoting the Author and my boss Billy Hornsby.  Billy is president of ARC, a network for church planters.  He loves the outdoors, blogging and traveling.

Billy gave me this book to read when I started with ARC.  It is a great book for pastors and leaders to give their 2nd level leaders.  If you are wondering what is a 2nd level leader, read about Joseph in Gen. 41.

For the new folks, I read books for the stories and if anyone can tell a story, it is Billy.  He has several good stories that teach the reader how to aquire the skills and be successful as the Second in Command.

I’m glad I read this book. “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all”

Just like the last few weeks, I want to give a copy of this book away. So the first person to comment on this post will get a free copy of this book in the mail from me.  Just click “comment” and type “Send me a copy.”  I need your address too! If you don’t want to make your address known you can email it to me planterguy (at) gmail (dot) com

Thanks for reading…

Guy Walker’s Tuesday Book Review 2/4

I just finished “Eyes Wide Open” by Jud Wilhite.  Never heard of this book?  That is because it just came out last week.  Thanks to Jud for sending me a copy early so I could offer it to YOU!

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Eyes Wide Open

My Favorite quote from this book is  “If you risk your life you have to have fear” -Evil Knievel

This book is filled with stories of how people are now seeing God in a new way.

Like Last Tuesday, I want to give a copy of this book away. So the first person to comment on this post will get a copy of “Eyes Wide Open”  in the mail from me.  Just click “comment” and type “Send me a copy.”  If you don’t want to make your address known you can email it to me planterguy (at) gmail (dot) com.

This was part 2 of a 4 part series called “Book Review Tuesday”.

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Books just started

Books just started

Guy Walker’s Tuesday Book Review 1/4

I just finished Mark Batterson’s “In a Pit With a LION on a Snowy Day.”   The book revolves around 2 Samuel 23:20 

20 Benaiah son of Jehoiada from Kabzeel was a vigorous man who accomplished a great deal. He once killed two lion cubs in Moab. Another time, on a snowy day, he climbed down into a pit and killed a lion. 21 Another time he killed a formidable Egyptian. The Egyptian was armed with a spear and Benaiah went against him with nothing but a walking stick; he seized the spear from his grip and killed him with his own spear.

Can you imagine watching those things happen? Killing a lion! Killing an Egyptian with his own spear.  I would love for someone to make a movie about this book.

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Benaiah was a lion chaser.  Mark does a great job explaining what lion chasers are

  • Lion Chasers are willing to take risk so God can use them
  • Lion Chasers are opportunist
  • Lion Chasers find a way of making circumstances work in their favor.

The book also has some great stories. My top 5 stories are:

  1. The story of Sarah who was scared to go on a missions trip.
  2. Lee was making 6 digits at Microsoft and left to plant a church.
  3. Edward Lorenz discovering the butterfly effect
  4. Corrie sharing her experiences living in a concentration camp
  5. Marks stories of the lion’s he has chased

Mark made me wonder if I would be willing to chase a lion into a pit on a snowy day.

I want to give a copy of this book away. So the first person to comment on this post will get a copy in the mail from me.  Just click “comment” and type “Send me a copy.”  If you don’t want to make your address known you can email it to me planterguy (at) gmail (dot) com

This was part 1 of a 4 part series called “Book Review Tuesday”

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